How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 01.07.2025 01:20

How does one succeed in life?

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

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I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

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Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

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Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

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Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

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Hangs out with loser friends.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

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Living to your full potential is a goal.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

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Do not set goals—set systems.

That's it for today.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

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Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

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Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Isn't it a turn on to have sex with a girl in a skirt or in a tight spandex?

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

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Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Procrastinates a lot.

Ask yourself:

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Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Making more friends is a goal.

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If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

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What I need from you?

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Why am I dreaming of people I've never seen before?

Does not procrastinate.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).